obstacles of L.i.f.E

what is obstacle-of-life??

haha..i believe when tis question rises..it brings nth but negative tots for most ppl... who would want an obstacles in life?? every1 prefer smooth sailing ships.. who want twister with thunder storms hunting their lives? i m toking general types.. all. from love-relationships, families, friensships, works to even health.

- not juz those station games obstacles, tho it sort of represent life obstacles.

- love relationships obstacles would either bring a closer distances o ruin d whole relationship. but it all depends on individuals in judging it. d most important is how strong they hold on to each other n d needs of being each others part of life.. (Maslow's hierarchy functions well here...)

- most difficult is those real life obstacles if u need to jump from brigde when u dunno how 2 swim...(either way ur chances of living is on par probably..)

haha.. but sad to say tat.. oni obstacles can reli help ppl learn. help ppl see from other perspectives. help ppl understand d reality of life. help ppl to cope betta with upcoming obstacles. n many more. God makes us grow stronger with these. it strengthens relationships n develops wat v call --- maturity.. hahaha... old la..

in short, d most important things came into d whole picture is a person's supports (no matter who -- family, friends, lovers) will ever hold u tight n never let u go..

juz as when v r toddlers, our parents never give up in us, hold our hands tight when v first learn to walk.. n when v r into teenager life..friends become important support systems --they back u up (ahhaha..oni for true friends tho).. n when u r aduldhood, mostly r soulmates who share both d burden n obstacles together (sharring not oni can reduce d burden into quaters' but also put u into happiness) .. n when u r old.. ur heart is as strong as diamond.. only if u go thru obstacles...